Casey & Al's blog

Monday, September 28, 2009

Logan, Logan, Logan

We love Logan.

It's where we met, where we first held hands. It's where we fell in love. Every once in a while we have to re-escape to Logan for, sure a few moments wth family, but really a few moments with the foundations of our relationship. It's a time to remember the time that we had 'firsts' The first kiss, the first date, the first disagreements! There is something about being with the someone that you love, being in each other's arms, that defines happiness. It is a statement that you are not alone. That someone else in the world cares about you and wants you to be happy for their own happiness.
I write this not to rub any noses in our happiness, but to say that there is hope. For you not-quite-yet-marrieds or for you marrieds passing through rocky paths. There is hope. We have had our share of downs But with forgiveness and mutual desire to make it work because of love there are ups.
We went to Logan for the weekend. We kissed on the "A" during Homecoming at 1:00 AM (there was a line) and made Allie a True Aggie! (after four years of school there and two years of visiting it finally happened.) We went to the Football game dressed in our awesome new Aggie gear. We saw friends anf family. We went to the Anniversary Inn to celebrate two years next month. We had fun in each other's company. I love that woman. I love to laugh with her. To tease her and play with her, and just be with her.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

First comes marriage...

Casey and I went to wedding for a good friend today and it made me think about a lot of things. Why do we only celebrate a wedding for one day? It is so crazy and hectic and then it is all over. Girls look forward to that day their whole life and then...poof!...its over. Then we spend the rest of our lives looking back and wishing we could do it again or change parts of it.

I am also starting to not like this in between life. We are not single, so we don't hang out with tons of people and do fun activities anymore. We also don't have kids so we don't fit in with others or have any excuse not to do things. I mean, I am not dying to have kids right now, but this not doing anything kind of sucks. It would be better if we had married, no kids friends to do stuff with. But we don't. Lame.